Love never hates Dreams.

People sacrifice their dreams for many reasons. It could be because of loved ones you decide to take care of like your children, your ill mother, or father, etc. When you see someone with a real passion to create, its inspiring to a point where you want to create or find a way to help them out. In most cases, people should never give up on their dreams because it may lead the dreamer to resent who or whatever the reason was for their "dream deferred." I watched a co worker spontaneously sing a song(that she wrote) in the breakroom at work with boldness that honestly took me by surprise. She has a decent voice that could be stronger with singing lessons. The song was very catchy and radio friendly; i kept humming it after she sung it to me. She was singing to me like i was a record executive. lol. But let me get to my point, she will never make her dream a reality! I say that because as I tried to contact a music producer associate, she began to explain to me her husbands "funny" opinion about black men. He's the kind of insecure man that makes me irritated when i hear about their ways. She told me he has a stereotypical opinion about all black men sagging their jeans...blah blah blah. Basically he's a racist that thinks all balck men are thugs that wanna have sex with his white wife. The man thats suppose to love her doesn't want his wife to pursue her dream because he has nightmares of a black man taking advantage of her. NEWSFLASH: she's gonna do what she wants to do weather you like it or not!! Now i believe she's just as guilty for letting anyone including her husband destroy what makes her truly happy. I also considered that she might be using him as an excuse to not pursue a singing career because of her own insecurites. But either way a dream should never stay alseep unless the circumstances are honorable like i mentioned in the opening of this blog. Now let me say I do hope she at least pursue her music either in the form of writing or producing if not singing. All men have an ego to a certain extent but it should never hurt anyone in the process, especially to the people you love. For example, you have to have a certain level of an ego to bring about change for yourself and the world. Her husband's ego is choking the life out of her passion; love sets people free.